This morning I a got chance to go my old Mohallah to visit the cart(Thella) of Jafar Bhai for having spicy Gol Gappay,Aloo Plate and Mix Plate. Anyone who lives in Nazimabad No.1 or have spent many years in 1-G,1-H and related blocks of Nazimabad No.1 or near Jalalabad,Nazimabad knows Jafar Bhai quite well. I remember the days when we guys used to run to his thella early morning. Specially in vacations I always visited him first before buying house-hold stuff. I always liked the spicy Aloo Plate which used to be of Rs.5 till the time I was in Nazimabad and a piece of spicy Potato in stick which cost 50 paisas.
Anyway, today the weather was quite lovely, cloudy and cool breeze. Wife and kid are at their Grandma house so after De-Cockroachifieng my room by spraying lots of Mortein I headed towards my old neighborhood. I planned to go by Bus. I often go by bus so that I don’t quit the habit of public transport. The weather was good and less crowded bus did not make my journey unpleasant. As usual when I reached in my area, old memories took over me and I started thinking about everything I did,felt,heard or seen in the early 25 years of my life. While I was having stuff,it reminded me how simple life I had just 20 years ago. How less we used to demand or consume at that time. I remember we did not have PTCL phone till 1991 and we used to go on ground floor to our Phoppo home to receive the call of mamoo who lives in Muscat. Other than that we never felt life incomplete without phone. Then in 1991 we got our phone line after 6 years of submitting demand note. We were thrilled. Ammi was happy as she did not have to go down all the time from 2nd floor to ground floor to receive Mamoo calls.
I remember how we guys used to gather outside of home for hours. There was not computer at that time so all we guys could stay long hours out; playing cricket,hockey etc or having chat and laughing out loud. People at that time did not use to come out only in loadsheding period. Infact loadsheding was quite a unique thing even in 90s. Since almost everyone was living their for decades so every house was like a family for us. In vacations we used to play cricket after Fajar till 8:00 AM and then breakfast. TV channels in those days were not used to run 24/7 transmission hence ladies always used to utilize their morning hours in cooking food,cleaning home and other constructive stuff. PTV used to start from 4:00 PM and later NTM also did not run 24/7 transmissions either. People had enough time to think about themselves, enjoying weather and every thing. We were a bit closed to nature than today. While thinking about all these things and missing old days, I asked myself, what went wrong and who is responsible for all that? The answer I found: our useless attempts to make our lives easier by using technology which in return made our lives cluttered and miserable.
Just remember the days when you had no mobile and you were used to go office or school. At that time your wife or mom were not so worried and tense while sending you to work place or schools despite of they did not have any channel to get in touch with you all the time. Recall the days when you were not used to get BREAKING NEWS all the time despite we faced severe days in 90s when an Operation got started by the government. Remember the days when there was a curfew and you were going for board exams. At that time your were more concerned to appear in exam than texting your mom that you are safe. At that time your mom was more busy in cooking next spicy dish for you than calling here and there.
Remember the days when you used to go one weekend to your Khala, other weekend to Chacha and week days to some distant relatives. At that time ladies did not get angry or frown just because you step in at the time their favorite cooking show is on-air in some pathetic private channel. It makes me to ask a question: Were not our ladies used to make yummilicious dishes at that time when there was no Internet or channel to teach them about recipes? Was there no life without electric blender, chopper or.. SHAAN MASALA? Were we not used to enjoy every bite of seasonal dishes made by our moms,sisters or wives? Why at that time we used to enjoy more food than now despite of we have luxuries?
The answer of all questions is: You made your life cluttered. You wanted to make it easier but in result you made it miserable. You wanted to get in touch with thousands by using Facebook or Twitter but in reality you became more socially loner than past. In past you only used to keep a few money in your pocket and used to buy things within the limit but now you have credit cards which gives you liberty to buy more than you actually deserve. In past you either had a car or not a car thus you either preferred a public transport like Bus or Rickshaw. Now you can have loan from Bank so even if you earn a lesser amount, you would have a brand new car. In past you did not burn nights and days to achieve every thing because there was quite a less competition in every walk of life. Now you want to have everything around thus in result everything; relationship,love, smiles of your grown up child, the cool breeze and sun rise early morning because you slept late and missed Fajar. You want to be informed about every thing without realizing that you have not been assumed to know everything.
So can a life be uncluttered? Can we live without TV,mobile,Internet and all that? Well before my own personal experience, I was not sure about it but in 2008 I went for a 3-day trip with Tableeghi party. It was my first ever trip. We went 50 miles ahead of Gadaap area in a village which was in a deserted area. We were 11 people in the group and had stayed in a masjid(98% of them were electrical,electronics,mechanical and computer engineers). In those 3 days I was not in contact with outside world. There was no mobile coverage therefore mobile could be used as a paper weight. There was no TV,Internet to get updates about the latest tech posts. I am not used to sleep on floor but in those 3 nights I got best sleep of my life. There were no fancy and standardized dishes like Biryani,Qorma etc and 3 days I had boiled rice with potato,Daal which was not so well cooked yet it was so tasty that I still miss the taste. There was no typical toilet there for me and I had to go in a topless room and our toilet was a couple of bricks and our flush was sand. I was not worried, tense or anything about family in the absence of communication network. I was quite content and nothing made me anxious and all. Despite of religion factor which matters most, there is something else which I experienced; all of a sudden my life became uncluttered. I could live without things which I assumed were part of my life.
So, does it mean uncluttered life makes you feel comfortable? Well, I am not an expert but all I can say that uncluttered life does make you work hard hence you feel good. Uncluttered life stops you to have information which is not necessary for you. Having a unconventional washroom with a lota with limited water did serve the purpose though I faced difficulty, strived more(adjusting myself how to sit on bricks). Absence of 24/7 channels which constantly feeding you about what’s happening in the world kept you sane and it did not ruin your life either. Physically visiting your friends and relatives instead of messaging via Mobile,Facebook or via calls make you feel much better because you tried to oppose your comfort zone. Comfort zones are not good for humans. They have been assembled to do struggles. Technology rather pushed us in comfort zone thus made our lives miserable.
So next time when you decide to pick mobile while going office, using mobile or Facebook to get in touch with friends or watching TV about next breaking news or new recipe from a channel or SHAAN MASALA, just think once, is it going to make you feel easier? If the answer is yes then just quit it. Just drop it and pick the harder choice . The moment you do it, you already have started making your life uncluttered.